write the outline of the masterclass on undoing narcissism

neurodivergence & stimming

communication nonverbal priority

post about DCFO challenge & OG PAGES

more on YouTube

masterclass & membership

readings to communicate with authentic path to help see the conditioning

.i would say I have always been obsessed with words.

and relationships.

now i have the tools of astrology & human design & gene keys to see the patterns in the archetypes at play. these are languages unto themselves.

and i love non violent communication and that sort of bending and twisting of sentences to find a structure for actual harmony – disentanglement.

and i love the way we can use our naturally shadowy (existentially kinky) deep love of the manipulation for power towards manipulating words to balance the power instead of participating in the hoarding/evasive dance of victim-perpetrator perspectives.

thereby embodying the most empowered version of our own self that is possible holding boundaries without bulldozing, holding clarity without force, only taking responsibility for our own experience in our own body in our own energy bubble – THIS IS LIBERATION.

Liberating ourselves this way in real-time we breed permission into the liberation of others. and this is a most direct (efficient and effective) way of making an impact in the liberation of others – especially on global/collective (even cosmic) scale.

Taking responsibility at that level requires nonverbal communication as a primary function… which for most of means reclaiming this relationship with ourselves – the relationship to our feeling and sensing skills.

we use feeling and sensing skills to communicate somatically (with/through the body).

This includes energy work – breath, movement, healing arts – necessarily trauma informed means understanding nervous system basics.

For me DCFO explains nervous system basics in a way I can apply to every complexity in life with a fair amount of ease without having to logically grasp how far DCFO can even go.

DCFO is a 4 word language that bridges the verbal & nonverbal

the four words are discharge circulation flexibility openness.

we want to be UN’FOC’D – rewriting history – correcting all the bypassing – back to DCFO – fully self responsible individuals (sovereign) allowing & empowering the highest best state of interdependence (community).

An extremely conscious morality – WAY OF BEING – naturally woven into your wiring , absolutely there to uncover – the choice is yours.

To put it most briefly (though we can go on and on literally forever) :::::

1. every layer of the system must be discharged – regular maintenance here creates flexibility (of character, of story, of experiencing) adaptable and able to securely stretch into new horizons

2. energy needs to circulate through the whole system in a balanced way to uphold openness (of mind, of heart, of experiencing) and

3. living in this openness (which necessitates an inner sense of safety) breeds safety in our shared environments –

4. it naturally calls out and alchemizes shadows revealing one’s essential flexibility.

how we can practice? —-> get together, share about what’s alive in our hearts and our homes – – – – – workshop real life conversation prioritizing somatics to apply semantics successfully for your desired outcomes. I FACILITATE THIS.

I’m interested in working in person Local & online – with individuals, partnerships, or groups. I’ve noticed a shortage of resources for emotionally intelligent humans still to some degree struggling with the mess of relationships on a landscape of conditioned narcissism vastly controlled by our inherited use of language.

Remembering relational riches.

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